1. A man without a source of income

 Whether or not a woman is after your money, no woman will like to be hooked up with a man who can barely provide for himself, talk more of providing for himself and a woman. No matter how rich a woman is, she would prefer a man who can buy all the necessary things he needs over a man who can barely fend for himself. Note that, a relationship is not necessarily about money, but most importantly, it is erroneous and irritating for a man to want a woman if he can barely take care of himself. You should be forced to ask, what does he want to do with her if he cannot even provide for himself? Gone are those days when it was opined that love is not all about money. It is not all about money because it is about money and other things. Before contracting any lady into a meaningful relationship, a man should have a source of income.

2. A man who has an attitude problem

When a woman accepts to date a man, it can be said that such a woman is not signing a contract with trouble. A man is designed to be the head of a family, to be the leader in the family. No woman wants to date a man who has an attitude problem. A man who is either too bossy or too petty. There are lots of issues that should worry a woman and a man should not let his become a worry to a woman. No woman wants headache in the name of a relationship.

3. A man who is bossy

Nature has made it just obvious and acceptable that a man is the head of the family. However, a man does not need to prove it or else it becomes worrisome and irritating. Many relationships have hit the rock because men choose to argue their places in the affairs rather than just be and act the way they are designed to act. A reasonable woman understands that a man should be loved and respected but love and respect should not be demanded; it is earned. Asking for it and insisting on these make a man bossy and i am yet to meet a woman who wants to be ordered around by one bossy man. They are probably not born yet; they may come in the next century.

4. A man who feels inferior
Every family or relationship grows around the personality of the head of the family. Since men are created to be leaders, it will be disastrous for the leader of any relationship to always feel inferior. This inferiority rubs off on every other person who is “led” by such a man. A man should have the boldness and courage to lead his relationship well. His ego should not be bruised to a point where he feels less than a man. Every woman wants a man who does not just dress in manly clothes but is proud of who he is and has a good amount of confidence in himself.

5. A dirty man
One very common excuse for dirtiness among men is that men were created from dust (directly) while women were created from the man (an already made product). For this “reason”, many people opine that women are neater and cleaner than men. (you are entitled to your opinion too). Well, there is no reason why a man should be dirty, whether he was created from dust or gutter. A man should be presentable before any woman would want to take a shot at him. He should have clean breath, beautiful look and clean clothes as well. It is appalling to find out that the breath from some men can kill insects. Sometimes you begin to wonder if they ate dead rats. Dear male creature of God, please, be clean. Women love men who are spotlessly, or at least, considerably clean.

6. A man without focus
No matter how much money a man has and no matter how good-looking he may be, in no time, he will be worthless if he does not have a goal or a focus. A responsible man should have a goal, a plan, something he is working towards or something he is planning. A man who fails to plan has planned to fail already. It is not possible for a responsible lady to want to have anything to do with a focus-less man.

7. A man who has no respect for women
There are still so many men who believe that a woman is a second-class citizen of any environment where there are men. well, every woman deserves respect. A man who cannot respect a woman is not fit to marry a woman. Women love men who respect and appreciate womanhood, not a man who assumes that a woman is a property to be purchased anywhere, by any means.

7 KINDS OF PEOPLE WHO ARE LIKELY TO SUCCEED IN TIMES OF ECONOMIC RECESSION

THE GO-GETTER
The go-getter is that one person who is hell-bent on making it. In such a period of economic recession and retrogression, an unfocused person can only just get by with life but for success to be achieved, go-getters are needed.Their tenacity and perseverance in the face of crisis is one force that will keep them fixed on their goal and eventually help them attain success.

THE CREATIVE MIND
In this time of search for money, what one requires to really make money is not just hardwork but creativity. Hardwork is good but it is not just enough. In times when it seems like money is not easy to come by, the peak of creativity is required for anyone to succeed beyond their peers.

THE OPPORTUNISTS
While people are gathering to organize a pity-party about how bad life is, and how it is difficult to sail through the storms of life, one man, an opportunist, decides to create a “common interest”, a means of making money from them all. An opportunist is the person who will be observant enough to see an opportunity in the midst of challenges.

THE OPTIMIST
Nothing as strong as a positive  conviction in the midst of controversies. An optimist is that person who believes that no matter how many times failure occurs, there is a chance and likelihood of success. An optimist is that person who believes in success and prefers to see success in the face of adversity. Such people can survive any kind of storm that comes their way.

THE DISCIPLINARIAN
This person is disciplined in all that he does and will not let a little misbehavior ruin his success or the chances thereof. A disciplinarian makes plans and keeps to those plans. He does not let circumstances dictate his plans and discipline. He is decisive and he fore-plans his activities before executing them.

THE PLANNER
The popular saying that “he who fails to plan has planned to fail” best explains this. A planner is that person who does not just fall into activities but plans activities. A planner will not let just anyone decide what he does. He wakes up with a reason to be alive, a plan for himself. A planner ends his day even before he starts his day.

THE SKILLED PERSON
This is a season where jobs are not very easy to come by, and as a result, the employed few are even afraid of losing their jobs. Well, in times like this, it is as gainful as it is safe to be skilled manually. People who know how to make money with their hands will have lesser challenges in periods like these. Rather than  seeking employment anywhere, their hands fetch them money..

A talent is a blessing and a gift from God but then, not all talents make it through the windows of admiration from the ends of the world. Most of the people who have multiple talents do not necessarily succeed as those who have few of the talents they possess. Here are some of the reasons why it is that way:

Multi-talent is confusing

Having too many talents and not knowing how to use them is like having too many wrist watches; they all will not be accurate enough to inform you on what time it is you wanna know. Most of the people who are multi-talented are almost always confused as to what exactly they are supposed to be doing in life. Most of them are unsure what exactly is going to bring them to limelight and they tend to fiddle with one talent per time.

Multi-talent doesn’t guarantee success

Having so many talents does not necessarily guarantee that one will be successful in life. Most of the times, the “excess” talents constitute distractions to the people who seem to have them. This is because they tend to feed and explore all  of their talents at once thereby leading themselves to be less than professionals in all that they possess as talents.

Division of direction and focus

Many of the people who are seemingly multi-talented tend to be confused as to which of their talents they specifically need to focus on. Therefore, most of them live their lives wandering and hovering on each talent per time, thereby wasting the time that could be spent on developing and being the best on one out of all the talents. They further find it difficult to focus solely and strongly on one thing and this doesn’t help them in their pursuit of a career and allied matters.

They are known for many things but barely the best at one

Because multi-talented people are good at many things and can hardly focus on one thing well, they are known for everything and can be rated above average in all their areas of talent but can hardly be reckoned with as the best in one thing. This makes them qualify to be called the jack of all trades.

Multi-talented people are almost always busy doing too many things
Most of the times, multi-talented people tend to find themselves helping a lot of people with one challenge or the other.  This is because they easily come to mind when one thinks of an accessible unaccomplished talent and multi-talented people on the other hand find fulfillment in helping others than they do in themselves. So they find themselves busy helping the world but themselves and since they find fulfillment in helping others, they don’t mind saying farewell to one talent after using it in helping people.

 They easily lose interest, even in themselves

Because of the abundance of talents and the unfulfilled quest for success, multi-talented people will switch from one of their talents to another, easily while those who have few talents will stick to their talents and make the best of it. This makes the multi-talented people easily frustrated and increase the tendency of them losing interest in everything, including themselves while sliding in and out of depression at times.

They easily follow trends and do not dictate trends

Multi-talented people tend to get inspired by trends in order to realize and uncover most of the things they can do but were unaware of. For this reason, they tend to find out some of their talents when they see others do same and they are hardly the first to do anything good.They blend with the trend and they are always in a hurry to try out things that have been done by others. This puts them in a good condition to be seen as number two.

However, there are few multi-talented people in life who have become very successful and have been known all around the world. In order to succeed, a multi-talented person should know and do these:

* Focus on strengths – feed your focus and starve your distraction!
* Know that which gives you joy
* Do one thing at at ime
*Give your best in all that you do
*Embrace the spirit of perseverance
*Know that one talent that you enjoy better than the other ones.

Holding on to an abusive relationship

Spending your money on a man

Spending your money, either hard-earned or soft-earned, on a man will definitely be a reverse of the order of   God’s plan. A man is meant to be the one who basically caters for the family. A woman is expected to be a help, meet (fit, proper, prom, adequate, sufficient) for a man. In other words, a woman is meant to assist a man. Assistance is not sponsorship; it means that the man is doing something and you are supporting him. Spending money on a man, for whatever reasons will affect the relationship and kill the man’s ego. However, a woman is meant to support a man if things get sour, but that’s not her responsibility and it shouldn’t be tagged so.

Even if he cheats, he will come back to me

I will fight for my man

Finding a man will bring an end to my problems
Every stage in life comes with its own challenges. No matter what you go through in life, if you cannot fend for yourself and take good care of yourself, how much more difficult will it be for you if your challenges are added up with that of another person? it won’t be any easy. So, finding a man will not bring an end to any of your challenges, you should be a complete person; one who knows how to take care of herself and as well, one who finds satisfaction and contentment in oneself.